Sunday, December 19, 2010

How To Attract Women


Do not TRY to attract women - When you TRY to attract women, it sends out a NEEDY vibe that says, “I need you to like me. I need you to want me. Please tell me I’m okay.” Ugh. Who wants someone like that?

Find your passion and become OUTSTANDING at it- By developing yourself as an individual and becoming excellent at what you do, you will stand out and you will magnetize people who admire you for your skill. Women love successful men. Find your means to success and a woman who admires your method will be drawn to you and will want to be next to you and learn from you.

Be Silent- Never profess your affection for a woman with words. Show a woman you like her through your actions. Show her you like her by teaching her how to reach her dreams. Invest in her dreams. Support her goals.

Be Yourself- Every woman has an ideal man in their minds but the most ideal trait a man can have is the audacity to be himself. Like what you like. Don’t like what you don’t like. Say NO when you want to. You have to. This shows a woman that she can’t control you and she doesn’t own it. This lets her know you love and respect yourself and she will respect you for it.

Become Resourceful- A woman wants a man she can go to for advice. Never listen to a sticky situation that a woman presents and then mutter, “I don’t know what you’re gonna do about that.” Ugh. I’ll tell you what she will do. She will go out and find a better man to partner with because a woman wants a man she can go through a crisis with and appreciate that he will add VALUE to the situation. Go take a mechanics course so you can help with her car. Go take a class on business so you can educate her on how to open her own business. Develop a wealth of resourceful information so that you will become useful and NECESSARY and she will call you when she needs help figuring things out. Women value that.

Be a problem solver. Offer solutions. Never say, “Your thighs are too fat.” Instead say, “Baby, I bought you this thigh master and I got myself a tread mill so we can stay sexy forever.” Never offer a criticism without offering a solution.

Implement these tips into your personal development regimen and watch your stock increase.

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